System, Method and Computer Program Product for a Dating Decision Process

ABSTRACT

A system and method include establishing a first member profile and displaying a second member profile. The first member is restricted from viewing portions of the second member profile. A level of interest the first member has for a second member is indicated in the second member profile and the server restricts the second member from viewing the indication. The first member is notified that the level of interest the first member has for the second member matches a second member&#39;s selected level of interest for the first member and the second member is notified of the matching. The first member views at least a portion of the portions that were restricted, the matching interest level and the list of pre-defined stages available for further selection and matching. The first member is enabled to contact the second member in response to the matching interest level corresponding to a desire to meet.

CROSS-REFERENCE TO RELATED APPLICATIONS

The present Utility patent application claims priority benefit of theU.S. provisional application for patent Ser. No. 61/310,242 filed onMar. 3, 2010 under 35 U.S.C. 119(e). The contents of this relatedprovisional application are incorporated herein by reference for allpurposes to the extent that such subject matter is not inconsistentherewith or limiting hereof.

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FIELD OF THE INVENTION

One or more embodiments of the invention generally relate to electronicdating. More particularly, the invention relates to electronic datingand matching techniques in a computer based social networking orelectronic dating service.

BACKGROUND OF THE INVENTION

Electronic dating and matchmaking systems suffer from several problemswhich prevent many potentially compatible members from ever meeting orestablishing any sort of relationship. One such problem is fear ofrejection, which may cause both parties to be unwilling to initiatecontact with another member through a phone call or email. Many people,especially women, feel uncomfortable making the first move, even if thatmove is to simply show the slightest interest. For example, some womanfeel it is a matter of pride to never initiate any communication with aman to pursue a date, and this problem is not limited to the initialcontact. Even after an initial meeting, both parties may be too nervousto write a message proposing to meet again for a more intimateencounter, or any sort of second date. As such, both parties oftenprocrastinate, maybe indefinitely.

Another problem with current electronic dating and matchmaking is thattime lags and unanswered messages may prevent potentially compatiblemembers from connecting. A popular member may get so many messages thatthey may not have time to answer them all or may take so long to answerthat the other member gets the feeling that the popular member is notbeing responsive enough. Fickleness and indecisiveness can also lead tomany potential matches being unfulfilled. For example, a woman mightreview several profiles and feel interested to know more about aparticular member yet not do anything about it. Later, this memberwrites a message to the woman suggesting some contact; however, thewoman has changed her mind or forgotten that she once had some interestin the member.

Another problem that exists with online dating services is the inabilityto charge for the service in a way directly related to value received.The best way to charge for a service is to charge for results, thuseliminating any risk to the customer for paying without receivingresults. However, once members connect for the first time in a typicalonline dating service, there is little chance of systematicallydetermining if the relationship has progressed to some level of “datingfulfillment” or not to be able to use such information to charge a feefor actual results.

In view of the foregoing, there is a need for improved techniques forproviding effective electronic dating systems that are able to chargebased on results.

BRIEF DESCRIPTION OF THE DRAWINGS

The present invention is illustrated by way of example, and not by wayof limitation, in the figures of the accompanying drawings and in whichlike reference numerals refer to similar elements and in which:

FIG. 1 is a flowchart illustrating an exemplary method for providingmatches in a multiple stage, mutual interest electronic dating system,in accordance with an embodiment of the present invention;

FIG. 2 is a flowchart illustrating an exemplary interaction between twomembers of an exemplary multiple stage, mutual interest electronicdating system, in accordance with an embodiment of the presentinvention;

FIG. 3 is a screen shot of an exemplary member profile page in amultiple stage, mutual interest electronic dating system on a PC, inaccordance with an embodiment of the present invention;

FIG. 4 is a screen shot of a member profile link in a multiple stage,mutual interest electronic dating system on an SMS enabled Smartphone,in accordance with an embodiment of the present invention;

FIG. 5 is a screen shot of an event attendee list from a multiple stage,mutual interest electronic dating system, in accordance with anembodiment of the present invention; and

FIG. 6 illustrates a typical computer system that, when appropriatelyconfigured or designed, can serve as a computer system in which theinvention may be embodied.

Unless otherwise indicated illustrations in the figures are notnecessarily drawn to scale.

SUMMARY OF THE INVENTION

To achieve the forgoing and other objects and in accordance with thepurpose of the invention, a system, method and computer program productfor a dating decision process is presented.

In one embodiment a system includes means for a first member toestablish a first member profile on a server, means for a second memberto establish a second member profile on the server, means for the firstmember to display the second member profile where the server restrictsthe first member from viewing portions of the second member profile,means for the second member to display the first member profile wherethe server restricts the second member from viewing portions of thefirst member profile, means for the first member to indicate to theserver at least one level of interest the first member has for thesecond member, the level of interest being indicated in the secondmember profile and the server restricting the second member from viewingthe indication, means for the second member to indicate to the server atleast one level of interest the second member has for the first member,the level of interest being indicated in the first member profile andthe server restricting the first member from viewing the indication,means for notifying the first member of the at least one level ofinterest the first member has for the second member matching the atleast one level of interest the second member has for the first memberand enabling the first member to view at least a portion of the portionsof the second member profile that were restricted, and means fornotifying the second member of the at least one level of interest thesecond member has for the first member matching the at least one levelof interest the first member has for the second member enabling thesecond member to view at least a portion of the portions of the firstmember profile that were restricted. In another embodiment the firstmember profile includes a profile photo, general information,information about appearance, sexual orientation, private photos andcontact information. In yet another embodiment the second member profileincludes a profile photo, general information, information aboutappearance, sexual orientation, private photos and contact information.In still another embodiment the at least one level of interest beingselected from a list of pre-defined stages of a dating decision process,the list of pre-defined stages being presented in an order ofprogressively higher levels of interest. In another embodiment the meansfor notifying the first member further enables the first member to viewthe at least one matching interest level and the list of pre-definedstages available for further selection and matching. In yet anotherembodiment the means for notifying the second member further enables thesecond member to view the at least one matching interest level and thelist of pre-defined stages available for further selection and matching.Still another embodiment further includes means for the first member andthe second member to connect in response to the at least one matchinginterest level corresponding to a desire to connect. Another embodimentfurther includes means for enabling the first member and the secondmember to directly contact each other in response to the at least onematching interest level corresponding to a desire to meet. Yet anotherembodiment further includes means for billing when the first member andthe second member reach a determined matching interest level. In stillanother embodiment the portions that were restricted include privatephotos and contact information.

In another embodiment a method includes the steps of a clientestablishing, on a server, a first member profile input by a firstmember for the first member. The first member profile includes a profilephoto, general information, information about appearance, sexualorientation, private photos and contact information. The client displaysfor the first member a second member profile established on the serverby a second member for the second member. The second member profileincludes a profile photo, general information, information aboutappearance, sexual orientation, private photos, and contact information.The server restricts the first member from viewing portions of thesecond member profile. The client indicates to the server at least onelevel of interest the first member has for the second member. The levelof interest is indicated in the second member profile and the serverrestricts the second member from viewing the indication. The level ofinterest is selected from a list of pre-defined stages of a datingdecision process. The client presents the list of pre-defined stages inan order of progressively higher levels of interest. The client receivesnotification from the server to the first member of the at least onelevel of interest the first member has for the second member matching asecond member's at least one selected level of interest for the firstmember and the server sending notification to the second member of thematching. The second member's at least one selected level of interest isindicated in the first member profile and is restricted from beingviewed by the first member. The client receives with the notification alink to the second member profile. The client displays for the firstmember the linked to second member profile with the server enabling thefirst member to view at least a portion of the portions that wererestricted, the at least one matching interest level and the list ofpre-defined stages available for further selection and matching. Theclient receives, from the server, means for the first member to connectwith the second member in response to the at least one matching interestlevel corresponding to a desire to connect. The client receives, fromthe server, contact information enabling the first member to contact thesecond member in response to the at least one matching interest levelcorresponding to a desire to meet where the server bills the firstmember at reaching this matching interest level. In another embodimentthe portions that were restricted include private photos and contactinformation. In yet another embodiment the client comprises a mobilecommunication device. Still another embodiment further includes theclient displaying for the first member a plurality of member profilesfor members attending an event at which the first member is attending.Another embodiment further includes the client indicating to the serverat least one level of interest the first member has for one or more ofthe plurality of members.

In another embodiment a non-transitory program storage device readableby a machine tangibly embodying a program of instructions executable bythe machine to perform a method for a dating decision process, includescomputer code for a client to establish, on a server, a first memberprofile input by a first member for the first member. The first memberprofile includes a profile photo, general information, information aboutappearance, sexual orientation, private photos and contact information.Included is computer code for the client to display for the first membera second member profile established on the server by a second member forthe second member. The second member profile includes a profile photo,general information, information about appearance, sexual orientation,private photos and contact information. The server restricts the firstmember from viewing portions of the second member profile. Included iscomputer code for the client to indicate to the server at least onelevel of interest the first member has for the second member. The levelof interest is indicated in the second member profile and the serverrestricts the second member from viewing the indication. The level ofinterest is selected from a list of pre-defined stages of a datingdecision process. The client presents the list of pre-defined stages inan order of progressively higher levels of interest. Included iscomputer code for the client to receive notification from the server tothe first member of the at least one level of interest the first memberhas for the second member matching a second member's at least oneselected level of interest for the first member and the server sendingnotification to the second member of the matching. The second member'sat least one selected level of interest is indicated in the first memberprofile and restricted from being viewed by the first member. Includedis computer code for the client to receive with the notification a linkto the second member profile. Included is computer code for the clientto display for the first member the linked to second member profile withthe server enabling the first member to view at least a portion of theportions that were restricted, the at least one matching interest leveland the list of pre-defined stages available for further selection andmatching. Included is computer code for the client to receive, from theserver, means for the first member to connect with the second member inresponse to the at least one matching interest level corresponding to adesire to connect. Included is computer code for the client to receive,from the server, contact information enabling the first member tocontact the second member in response to the at least one matchinginterest level corresponding to a desire to meet where the server billsthe first member at reaching this matching interest level. In anotherembodiment the portions that were restricted include private photos andcontact information. In yet another embodiment the client comprises amobile communication device. Still another embodiment further includescomputer code for the client to display for the first member a pluralityof member profiles for members attending an event at which the firstmember is attending. Another embodiment further includes computer codefor the client to indicate to the server at least one level of interestthe first member has for one or more of the plurality of members.

Other features, advantages, and objects of the present invention willbecome more apparent and be more readily understood from the followingdetailed description, which should be read in conjunction with theaccompanying drawings.

DETAILED DESCRIPTION OF THE PREFERRED EMBODIMENTS

The present invention is best understood by reference to the detailedfigures and description set forth herein.

Embodiments of the invention are discussed below with reference to theFigures. However, those skilled in the art will readily appreciate thatthe detailed description given herein with respect to these figures isfor explanatory purposes as the invention extends beyond these limitedembodiments. For example, it should be appreciated that those skilled inthe art will, in light of the teachings of the present invention,recognize a multiplicity of alternate and suitable approaches, dependingupon the needs of the particular application, to implement thefunctionality of any given detail described herein, beyond theparticular implementation choices in the following embodiments describedand shown. That is, there are numerous modifications and variations ofthe invention that are too numerous to be listed but that all fit withinthe scope of the invention. Also, singular words should be read asplural and vice versa and masculine as feminine and vice versa, whereappropriate, and alternative embodiments do not necessarily imply thatthe two are mutually exclusive.

It is to be further understood that the present invention is not limitedto the particular methodology, compounds, materials, manufacturingtechniques, uses, and applications, described herein, as these may vary.It is also to be understood that the terminology used herein is used forthe purpose of describing particular embodiments only, and is notintended to limit the scope of the present invention. It must be notedthat as used herein and in the appended claims, the singular forms “a,”“an,” and “the” include the plural reference unless the context clearlydictates otherwise. Thus, for example, a reference to “an element” is areference to one or more elements and includes equivalents thereof knownto those skilled in the art. Similarly, for another example, a referenceto “a step” or “a means” is a reference to one or more steps or meansand may include sub-steps and subservient means. All conjunctions usedare to be understood in the most inclusive sense possible. Thus, theword “or” should be understood as having the definition of a logical“or” rather than that of a logical “exclusive or” unless the contextclearly necessitates otherwise. Structures described herein are to beunderstood also to refer to functional equivalents of such structures.Language that may be construed to express approximation should be sounderstood unless the context clearly dictates otherwise.

Unless defined otherwise, all technical and scientific terms used hereinhave the same meanings as commonly understood by one of ordinary skillin the art to which this invention belongs. Preferred methods,techniques, devices, and materials are described, although any methods,techniques, devices, or materials similar or equivalent to thosedescribed herein may be used in the practice or testing of the presentinvention. Structures described herein are to be understood also torefer to functional equivalents of such structures. The presentinvention will now be described in detail with reference to embodimentsthereof as illustrated in the accompanying drawings.

From reading the present disclosure, other variations and modificationswill be apparent to persons skilled in the art. Such variations andmodifications may involve equivalent and other features which arealready known in the art, and which may be used instead of or inaddition to features already described herein.

Although Claims have been formulated in this Application to particularcombinations of features, it should be understood that the scope of thedisclosure of the present invention also includes any novel feature orany novel combination of features disclosed herein either explicitly orimplicitly or any generalization thereof, whether or not it relates tothe same invention as presently claimed in any Claim and whether or notit mitigates any or all of the same technical problems as does thepresent invention.

Features which are described in the context of separate embodiments mayalso be provided in combination in a single embodiment. Conversely,various features which are, for brevity, described in the context of asingle embodiment, may also be provided separately or in any suitablesubcombination. The Applicants hereby give notice that new Claims may beformulated to such features and/or combinations of such features duringthe prosecution of the present Application or of any further Applicationderived therefrom.

References to “one embodiment,” “an embodiment,” “example embodiment,”“various embodiments,” etc., may indicate that the embodiment(s) of theinvention so described may include a particular feature, structure, orcharacteristic, but not every embodiment necessarily includes theparticular feature, structure, or characteristic. Further, repeated useof the phrase “in one embodiment,” or “in an exemplary embodiment,” donot necessarily refer to the same embodiment, although they may.

As is well known to those skilled in the art many careful considerationsand compromises typically must be made when designing for the optimalmanufacture of a commercial implementation any system, and inparticular, the embodiments of the present invention. A commercialimplementation in accordance with the spirit and teachings of thepresent invention may configured according to the needs of theparticular application, whereby any aspect(s), feature(s), function(s),result(s), component(s), approach(es), or step(s) of the teachingsrelated to any described embodiment of the present invention may besuitably omitted, included, adapted, mixed and matched, or improvedand/or optimized by those skilled in the art, using their average skillsand known techniques, to achieve the desired implementation thataddresses the needs of the particular application.

A “computer” may refer to one or more apparatus and/or one or moresystems that are capable of accepting a structured input, processing thestructured input according to prescribed rules, and producing results ofthe processing as output. Examples of a computer may include: acomputer; a stationary and/or portable computer; a computer having asingle processor, multiple processors, or multi-core processors, whichmay operate in parallel and/or not in parallel; a general purposecomputer; a supercomputer; a mainframe; a super mini-computer; amini-computer; a workstation; a micro-computer; a server; a client; aninteractive television; a web appliance; a telecommunications devicewith internet access; a hybrid combination of a computer and aninteractive television; a portable computer; a tablet personal computer(PC); a personal digital assistant (PDA); a portable telephone;application-specific hardware to emulate a computer and/or software,such as, for example, a digital signal processor (DSP), afield-programmable gate array (FPGA), an application specific integratedcircuit (ASIC), an application specific instruction-set processor(ASIP), a chip, chips, a system on a chip, or a chip set; a dataacquisition device; an optical computer; a quantum computer; abiological computer; and generally, an apparatus that may accept data,process data according to one or more stored software programs, generateresults, and typically include input, output, storage, arithmetic,logic, and control units.

“Software” may refer to prescribed rules to operate a computer. Examplesof software may include: code segments in one or more computer-readablelanguages; graphical and or/textual instructions; applets; pre-compiledcode; interpreted code; compiled code; and computer programs.

A “computer-readable medium” may refer to any storage device used forstoring data accessible by a computer. Examples of a computer-readablemedium may include: a magnetic hard disk; a floppy disk; an opticaldisk, such as a CD-ROM and a DVD; a magnetic tape; a flash memory; amemory chip; and/or other types of media that can store machine-readableinstructions thereon.

A “computer system” may refer to a system having one or more computers,where each computer may include a computer-readable medium embodyingsoftware to operate the computer or one or more of its components.Examples of a computer system may include: a distributed computer systemfor processing information via computer systems linked by a network; twoor more computer systems connected together via a network fortransmitting and/or receiving information between the computer systems;a computer system including two or more processors within a singlecomputer; and one or more apparatuses and/or one or more systems thatmay accept data, may process data in accordance with one or more storedsoftware programs, may generate results, and typically may includeinput, output, storage, arithmetic, logic, and control units.

A “network” may refer to a number of computers and associated devicesthat may be connected by communication facilities. A network may involvepermanent connections such as cables or temporary connections such asthose made through telephone or other communication links. A network mayfurther include hard-wired connections (e.g., coaxial cable, twistedpair, optical fiber, waveguides, etc.) and/or wireless connections(e.g., radio frequency waveforms, free-space optical waveforms, acousticwaveforms, etc.). Examples of a network may include: an internet, suchas the Internet; an intranet; a local area network (LAN); a wide areanetwork (WAN); and a combination of networks, such as an internet and anintranet.

Exemplary networks may operate with any of a number of protocols, suchas Internet protocol (IP), asynchronous transfer mode (ATM), and/orsynchronous optical network (SONET), user datagram protocol (UDP), IEEE802.x, etc.

Embodiments of the present invention may include apparatuses forperforming the operations disclosed herein. An apparatus may bespecially constructed for the desired purposes, or it may comprise ageneral-purpose device selectively activated or reconfigured by aprogram stored in the device.

Embodiments of the invention may also be implemented in one or acombination of hardware, firmware, and software. They may be implementedas instructions stored on a machine-readable medium, which may be readand executed by a computing platform to perform the operations describedherein.

In the following description and claims, the terms “computer programmedium” and “computer readable medium” may be used to generally refer tomedia such as, but not limited to, removable storage drives, a hard diskinstalled in hard disk drive, and the like. These computer programproducts may provide software to a computer system. Embodiments of theinvention may be directed to such computer program products.

An algorithm is here, and generally, considered to be a self-consistentsequence of acts or operations leading to a desired result. Theseinclude physical manipulations of physical quantities. Usually, thoughnot necessarily, these quantities take the form of electrical ormagnetic signals capable of being stored, transferred, combined,compared, and otherwise manipulated. It has proven convenient at times,principally for reasons of common usage, to refer to these signals asbits, values, elements, symbols, characters, terms, numbers or the like.It should be understood, however, that all of these and similar termsare to be associated with the appropriate physical quantities and aremerely convenient labels applied to these quantities.

Unless specifically stated otherwise, and as may be apparent from thefollowing description and claims, it should be appreciated thatthroughout the specification descriptions utilizing terms such as“processing,” “computing,” “calculating,” “determining,” or the like,refer to the action and/or processes of a computer or computing system,or similar electronic computing device, that manipulate and/or transformdata represented as physical, such as electronic, quantities within thecomputing system's registers and/or memories into other data similarlyrepresented as physical quantities within the computing system'smemories, registers or other such information storage, transmission ordisplay devices.

In a similar manner, the term “processor” may refer to any device orportion of a device that processes electronic data from registers and/ormemory to transform that electronic data into other electronic data thatmay be stored in registers and/or memory. A “computing platform” maycomprise one or more processors.

A preferred embodiment of the present invention and at least onevariation thereof provide a method and system based on using mutualinterest matches at each of multiple stages in the dating process tohelp members in a social network or electronic dating service morequickly and frequently reach their dating objective while also enablingthe service to charge members based on events more closely related tothe dating objective. A “dating objective” is herein defined as the goalof establishing some relationship with another member, including, butnot limited to, a one time sexual encounter, a “just friends”relationship, a long-term romance, a marriage, etc.

FIG. 1 is a flowchart illustrating an exemplary method for providingmatches in a multiple stage, mutual interest electronic dating system,in accordance with an embodiment of the present invention. In thepresent embodiment, members of a social network or dating site are ableto privately indicate whether they wish to proceed to each of multiplepre-defined stages of the dating decision process with another member.Each stage represents a progressively higher level of interest thattypically occurs through the process of establishing a relationship. Inthe present embodiment, the dating process is broken into the followinginterest level stages, “Let's See”, “Let's Connect”, “Let's Meet”, and“Let's Play” indicating an interest to see more photos, talk by phone,have an initial meeting or meet again, and have sex, respectively. Inalternate embodiments the process may be broken into fewer, more ordifferent interest levels.

The present embodiment is preferably implemented in a multiplicity ofdifferent dating sites where most members of each site have the sameobjective in mind. However, there is a high degree of overlap in thesedating sites. For example, without limitation, many members of sexualdating sites are also members of romance dating sites and would be happyto achieve “the wrong objective” on either site. Further, a mutualinterest in having sex is certainly a key step along the way to along-term relationship for many people. Therefore, some alternateembodiments of the present invention may be implemented as a singledating site where the members have different dating objectives in mind.A difference in application of some of these alternate embodiments iswhich interest levels are included and also how these interest levelsare labeled. For example, without limitation, the interest level forhaving sex might be called “lets play” in one embodiment and “let's getphysical” in another embodiment. Also, when applied to dating siteswhere having sex is not typically an objective, for example, withoutlimitation, religious dating sites, this interest level may be omittedor replaced by a different interest level such as, but not limited to,“lets confess”, “let's go to church” or “let's pray”. Those skilled inthe art, in light of the present teachings, will readily recognize thata multiplicity of suitable interest levels may be included in alternateembodiments of the present invention such as, but not limited to, “let'ssee your profile” to view a member's profile beyond general information,“let's see your more revealing photos”, “let's message” to connectwithout revealing email addresses, “let's email”, “let's chat in aprivate chat room”, “let's text without revealing phone numbers”(requires text server), “let's talk by phone without revealing phonenumbers” (requires telephone solution), “let's text directly revealingphone numbers”, “let's talk directly revealing phone numbers”, “let'smeet again”, “let's have a 3rd date”, “let's get married”, etc.Alternate embodiments may comprise any number of interest settings,beginning with an embodiment with a single interest setting; however toomany settings may be too complicated to use and may not achieve optimalvalue to the user. Furthermore, since many preferred embodiments of thepresent invention are meant to perform mutual interest matching atmultiple interest levels, it is preferrable that two or more interestlevels are included in these embodiments.

In typical use of the present embodiment, a user accesses the datingsystem through a social network or dating web site on a desktopcomputer, a laptop, or mobile device such as, but not limited to, aSmartphone or a tablet computer. To begin using the electronic datingsystem, the user first creates a profile with the system in step 101.This profile may comprise a wide variety of information including, butnot limited to, a profile photo, general information, information aboutappearance, sexual orientation, private photos, contact information,interests, location, age, drinking/smoking levels, favorite websites,etc. Once the user is a member of the system, he may browse the profilesof other members in step 105. The profile information visible to memberswho are merely browsing the system is preferably limited to protect theprivacy of the members. For example, without limitation, profileinformation visible to all members may include, without limitation, aprofile photo, sexual orientation, general information such as, but notlimited to gender and age, information about appearance such as, but notlimited to, height, weight, hair color, eye color, etc. Once the userfinds another member in which he is interested, he can indicate hisinterest in pursuing each stage of the dating decision process with thismember by marking the corresponding interest levels on this member'sprofile in step 110. In the present embodiment, members are not informedof other member's interest in their profile unless the interest ismutual. This differs from some currently known matching sites thatenable an indication of interest to be revealed to the other memberwithout a match. In step 115, the system determines if there is a mutualinterest match at a particular interest level between the user and themember. A mutual interest in this case refers to the members beingmutually interested in taking an action with each other such as, but notlimited to, talking or meeting, as opposed to “a mutual interest in kitesurfing” for example, without limitation, which is also different frommany currently known matching sites that find compatibility matchesbased on common interests. Instead, the present embodiment uses interestlevel settings about another member that relate to moving further towardthe overall dating objective with that member. If there is no mutualinterest match in the present embodiment, the interest level preferencesfor the user and this member are saved by the system in step 120, andthe user is able to return to step 105 to view more member profiles. Inthe present embodiment, as shown by way of example in FIG. 3, the usercan return to other members' profiles to view and modify the currentinterest settings at any time.

Referring to FIG. 1, in the present embodiment when a mutual interestmatch occurs at a particular stage in step 115, both parties arenotified in step 125. This mutual interest match may be made immediatelywhen the user indicates his interest level preferences or may occurlater when the member in which he has indicated interest views theprofile of the user and selects the same interest level. Since the matchoccurs when the second party marks their interest at a particularinterest level, the system notifies the second party immediately ontheir computer screen or mobile device screen. A message such as but notlimited to, an electronic message, email or SMS text message if a phonenumber of a SMS enabled device is provided to the system is sent to thefirst party. In an alternate embodiment a notification message may besent to the second party rather than an immediate alert. In the presentembodiment, the mutual interest notification alerts and messages maycomprise direct links to the members' profiles such that, when clicked,the members are navigated directly to the other member's profile page.Where appropriate, the activity of the particular stage of the datingdecision process indicated by the matched interest level isautomatically facilitated. For example, without limitation, the membersmay be able to view each other's private not otherwise visible photos ora phone call or SMS text message on a mobile phone or through a computermay be initiated.

In step 130, the system determines what type of mutual match has beenmade. For a stage where members indicate mutual interest in seeing eachother's private photos, a “Let's See” match in the present embodiment,the system activates a link for each member that, when pressed,automatically provides a view of all of the photos of the other memberincluding private, not otherwise visible photos in step 135. Once twomembers have agreed that they have a mutual attraction based onappearance, the typical next stage is to talk to the member to checkchemistry. If the mutual match is at the “Let's Connect” interest level,the system provides connection information or a link enabling themembers to connect in step 140. Such connection information may include,without limitation, an email address, an instant messaging account, alink to a private chat room, a phone number, etc. In general, members ina social network or dating site do not publish their phone numbers ontheir member profile. Therefore, agreeing to have a phone conversationoften requires one party to “go out on a limb” and offer their phonenumber first, hoping that the other party is indeed interested to talk.Using the present embodiment, this type of information is only providedif a mutual interest match occurs. Furthermore, on a smart phone, a Callor SMS button may be included in the profile page links, as shown by wayof example in FIG. 4, which, when pressed, automatically initiates aphone call or SMS text message, with or without revealing the members'phone numbers. Many interest level settings may tie directly todifferent forms of contact. Since the interest levels representingdifferent stages in dating typically represent different forms ofcontact, members can control exactly who may contact them in each ofmultiple ways in many preferred embodiments. For example, withoutlimitation, a “Let's Email” match, which may be provided in somealternate embodiments, could cause each other's email address to berevealed, or such a match may facilitate a PC or Smartphone basedmessage button for composing an email, which is not available without amutual match at this level. A mutual match at a “let's talk by phone”interest level that may be available in some alternate embodiments couldreveal phone numbers or facilitate a call button on a Smartphone.Similarly a “let's text” match could reveal phone numbers or facilitatea Text or SMS button on a Smartphone, and so on.

Once both members are satisfied with appearance and chemistry, they maywish to meet in person to see if they wish to pursue a relationship orsexual encounter. Again, rather than one party needing to go “out on alimb” to suggest a meeting, both parties may simply mark (or not) the“Let's Meet” setting on the other member's profile. If a mutual interestmatch occurs at the “Let's Meet” interest level, contact information isprovided to both parties in step 145 to enable the members to arrange ameeting. In the present embodiment, the final interest level is the“Let's Play” level indicating interest in a sexual encounter. This levelsuffers the most from the fear of rejection problem encountered withtraditional dating techniques. In the present embodiment, both partiesmay check the “Let's Play” interest level on the other member's profile,without concern that the other member will know about their interest,unless the interest is mutual. If a “Let's Play” match occurs, bothparties are provided with the other's contact information in step 150 sothat they may arrange their encounter. As part of the contactinformation provided in steps 145 and 150, a “Let's Meet” or “Let'sPlay” match could facilitate links to a calendar system or anauto-scheduling function if applicable to the two parties. Further, a“Let's Meet” or “Let's Play” match could reveal more precise physicallocations of both members than is provided in the members' profile.Those skilled in the art, in light of the present teachings, willreadily recognize that alternate embodiments of the present inventionmay be implemented to provide various different types of information,links and buttons with match notifications. For example, withoutlimitation, some alternate embodiments may not comprise links or buttonsfor facilitating actions relating to the matched interest level. It isalso possible within this invention for members to set privacy controlsto govern how certain mutual interest matches might be facilitated. Forexample, a very popular female may indicate that Let's Connect matchesmay email her, or text her through an anonymous emailing or textingmechanism (one that does not reveal her email address or phone number),while other members may allow Let's Connect matches to text or emaildirectly, revealing their email address and/or cell phone number.

In the present embodiment, members may mark interest on any subset ofinterest levels and each interest level may be checked individually anddoes not automatically imply that all “lower levels” are checked. Anon-limiting example is a couple that talks on the phone, after whichone party decides they want to meet while the other wants to talk on thephone more. However, if the party who wishes to meet does not want tospend more time talking on the phone, this party can remove the “Let'sConnect” setting and leave the “Let's Meet” setting. In some alternateembodiments, the selection of a “higher interest level” may require thatall of the “lower levels” are also selected.

By breaking the dating process down into stages related to progressivelyhigher interest levels and detecting mutual interest matches, thepresent embodiment enables the service provider to charge a fee tomembers based on finding matches at higher interest levels. Since thesystem has a record of later stage matches, it is possible to billmembers only when they come close to reaching their “dating objective”or bill members more for these later stage matches. A member who hopesto find a partner for a sexual encounter or long term romanticrelationship would generally prefer to pay for results rather than pay amonthly fee. In steps 155 through 170 the members are charged accordingto the mutual matches made through the system. The amount charged foreach type of match preferably increases as the interest level increases.Therefore a “Let's Meet” match, billed in step 165, preferably costsmore than a “Let's See” match, billed in step 155 or a “Let's Connect”match, billed in step 160, and the system charges the highest amount fora “Let's Play” match, billed in step 170. In some alternate embodiments,there may be no charges for lower level matches such as, but not limitedto, “Let's See” matches or “Let's Connect” matches. Furthermore, in somealternate embodiments the billing system may be set up such that onlymen pay for matches and women can use the system at no charge. Yet otheralternate embodiments may be implemented as free services. In the sexualdating world, a mutual interest match for having sex enables the serviceto charge directly for something very close to the objective. Somepercent of such mutual interest matches are not fulfilled; however, a“Let's Play” match is a much closer proxy to the actual objective of themember than simply being an active member of the service for someperiod. In a romantic dating environment, the system could charge forsecond date or “Let's Meet Again” matches.

The system according to the present embodiment may allow more members toachieve their dating object than they would with traditional methods byenabling members to express interest, without fear of rejection, andletting the system identify and notify members of matches. The presentembodiment addresses the problem of overflowing email queues, and emailresponse delays, by not requiring any messages to be responded to orsent. Once a mutual interest match occurs, both parties are immediatelynotified, and thereby neither party is required to respond in anyparticular timeframe to confirm the interest. When a “Let's See” matchoccurs, no further communication is required to review each other'sprivate photos. When a “Let's Talk” match occurs, no furthercommunication is required to exchange phone numbers as they are revealedautomatically or revealed when pressing the Call or SMS buttons. Thepresent embodiment addresses the problem of fickleness andindecisiveness by virtue of members being forced to decide if they havean interest or not, and if so, once they have indicated interest for aparticular interest level with another member, there is an expectationthat if a match occurs, they must indeed follow through. An alternateembodiment of the present invention comprises a feedback mechanism toexpose members who regularly indicate interest and do not follow throughwhen a match occurs. The capabilities of the present embodiment not onlyimprove the effectiveness of an electronic dating service; they alsoprovide a scheme for billing members based on value received. By bothproviding a more effective service, and charging purely for the value, asocial networking or electronic dating system according to the presentembodiment can become substantially more effective and profitable thantraditional methods.

FIG. 2 is a flowchart illustrating an exemplary interaction between twomembers, John and Jane, of an exemplary multiple stage, mutual interestelectronic dating system, in accordance with an embodiment of thepresent invention. In the present embodiment, the system comprises twointerest levels, a “Let's Connect” interest level which means that amember would like to communicate by email, phone, or text, and a “Let'sMeet” interest level which means that a member is interested in aphysical meeting. In step 201 John marks the “Let's Connect” interestlevel on Jane's profile. Sometime later while reviewing all singlemales, Jane marks the “Let's Connect” interest level on John's profilein step 205. Jane immediatly receives an alert message of the match instep 210, for example, without limitation “You found a match!”, alongwith phone, text, and email buttons if Jane is using the system on atelephone and SMS enabled device. John receives an email and a textindicating that a “Let's Connect” match has been made with Jane in step215. The text and email include, without limitation, a link to Jane'sprofile to enable John to refresh his memory of Jane, a phone button, anemail button and a text button are also included if John is using atelephone and SMS enabled device. In step 220 John or Jane initiatescontact, for example, without limitation, by clicking the phone button.In step 225 contact is made, and John and Jane are able to talk. Bothunderstand the dating system, so neither try to “close the deal” and askfor an in person date. Jane updates the interest level settings on Johnin step 230 by checking the “Lets Meet” interest level on John'sprofile. John later updates the interest level settings on Jane'sprofile in step 235 by also checking the “Let's Meet” interest level. Instep 240 John receives an immediate alert message along with Jane'scontact information. Jane receives email and text notification of thematch with links to John's profile and contact information in step 245.John contacts Jane in step 250, for example, without limitation, bysending a text message to Jane and setting up a meeting. In step 255,the dating site bills John for finding a “Let's Meet” match. In thepresent example, ladies are able to match all they want for free.

An alternate embodiment of the present invention provides a multiplestage, mutual interest electronic dating system in a sexual datingenvironment where members are trying to find a partner for a sexualencounter. In a social network where members may view profiles of othermembers and perform searches based on member profile attributes, memberscan easily find other members in whom they might have an interest.However, in many cases due to privacy concerns, the photos visible toall members are limited, and often do not include facial photos. So itis quite common that a member wishes to see more revealing photos of theother member, before knowing if they are interested. As such, thepresent embodiment enables a user to mark a “Let's See” interest levelfor another member. If both members have marked this interest level, thesystem automatically allows otherwise restricted photos of these membersto be visible to both parties. By identifying the mutual interest stagesin a sexual dating process and applying the system to sites focused onthe sexual dating process, the present embodiment is applied in anenvironment where the better it works, the more members use it. Considerthis in contrast to a long-term relationship dating site where thebetter it works, the sooner members no longer need it. It iscontemplated that within the sexual dating environment, there are amultiplicity of suitable ways to apply the dating system and amultiplicity of suitable interest levels on which to match. For example,without limitation, within the kink/bdsm world, the “Let's Have Sex”interest level may need to be much more specific and include differenttypes of sex. In a sexual dating environment, charging for “Let's Play”matches may be a very effective way to charge a fee for each sex partnera member finds, and many members prefer to pay for the service on thisbasis over a simple monthly fee.

FIG. 3 is a screen shot of an exemplary member profile page in amultiple stage, mutual interest electronic dating system on a PC, inaccordance with an embodiment of the present invention. In the presentembodiment, a user can select interest level settings 301 of this memberon the profile page and save interest level settings 301 using a savebutton 303 or cancel settings 301 with a cancel button 304. The user canview and modify interest settings 301 at any time. The profile page alsocomprises information about the member such as, but not limited to,profile pictures 305 a user name 307, a current city 309, etc. Thoseskilled in the art, in light of the present teachings, will readilyrecognize that a multiplicity of suitable items may be included on amember's profile page including, but not limited to, age, sexualorientation, religious and political views, height, education,employment, etc. In the present example, a mutual match at the “Let'sTalk” interest level has been made; therefore, an email address 311 isalso shown.

FIG. 4 is a screen shot of a member profile link in a multiple stage,mutual interest electronic dating system on an SMS enabled Smartphone,in accordance with an embodiment of the present invention. In thepresent embodiment, the link is typically sent to a user in an alertmessage notifying the user of a mutual match. The link comprises aprofile picture 401 and general information about the member 403 torefresh the user's memory of the member. Interest level settings 405 arealso shown. Interest level settings 405 where mutual interest matchesexist are highlighted to clearly communicate to the user which settingsare a match. Alternate embodiments may not highlight mutual interestmatches in the interest level settings. In the present embodiment, amutual interest match has been made to connect. Therefore, a phone callbutton 407 is provided to initiate a phone call, an SMS button 409 isprovided to initiate an SMS text message, and an email button 411 isprovided to compose an email. Any device capable of both displaying amutual interest notification or member profile and also capable ofinitiating a phone call, email or instant message preferably includesthe relevant links or buttons to perform such actions. However, thesebuttons may not be included in alternate embodiments. In other alternateembodiments, these buttons may be displayed in various differentlocations within the system for example, without limitation, on members'profile pages.

FIG. 5 is a screen shot of an event attendee list from a multiple stage,mutual interest electronic dating system, in accordance with anembodiment of the present invention. In the present embodiment, thedating system is being used in the context of an event, where a group ofmembers attending the event are using the system on Smartphones. A usermay peruse the list of event attendees prior to the event from aSmartphone or desktop device and set interest level settings 501 for theother attendees. The list also indicates where mutual interest settingmatches have been made by highlighting these matches. At the event, eachmember with a Smartphone can, as they meet and gain more informationabout other members, continually review the list of members, updatesettings, and potentially create and receive notification of newmatches. Since the present embodiment also preferably includes theability to send a text notification when new matches have occurred,during the event, the user's phone can signal the user each time a newmatch occurs. Therefore, if during the event, a member for whom the userhad previously selected the “Let's Meet” or “Let's Play” interest level,newly selects the same interest level for the user, that memberimmediately receives an alert message of a found match on their screen,and the user immediately receives an SMS text message about the newmatch, including appropriate links to see the other member's profile andCall or SMS buttons to facilitate communication. The present embodimentis preferably used in conjunction with a particular event where the useof the system has been promoted among the attendees. In an event wheremany people are looking to “hook up” for example, without limitation, asingles nightclub event or a speed dating event with the dynamic of timeremaining winding down and alcohol content ramping up, many new matcheswill typically occur as the event progresses, potentially causing a hugebuzz around the event. Even before the event, as members review profilesand mark interest settings, the system may well cause a buzz around theevent as members invite others or decide to attend based on matches withother members who are also attending.

Those skilled in the art will readily recognize, in light of and inaccordance with the teachings of the present invention, that any of theforegoing steps and/or system modules may be suitably replaced,reordered, removed and additional steps and/or system modules may beinserted depending upon the needs of the particular application, andthat the systems of the foregoing embodiments may be implemented usingany of a wide variety of suitable processes and system modules, and isnot limited to any particular computer hardware, software, middleware,firmware, microcode and the like. For any method steps described in thepresent application that can be carried out on a computing machine, atypical computer system can, when appropriately configured or designed,serve as a computer system in which those aspects of the invention maybe embodied.

FIG. 6 illustrates a typical computer system that, when appropriatelyconfigured or designed, can serve as a computer system in which theinvention may be embodied. The computer system 600 includes any numberof processors 602 (also referred to as central processing units, orCPUs) that are coupled to storage devices including primary storage 606(typically a random access memory, or RAM), primary storage 604(typically a read only memory, or ROM). CPU 602 may be of various typesincluding microcontrollers (e.g., with embedded RAM/ROM) andmicroprocessors such as programmable devices (e.g., RISC or SISC based,or CPLDs and FPGAs) and unprogrammable devices such as gate array ASICsor general purpose microprocessors. As is well known in the art, primarystorage 604 acts to transfer data and instructions uni-directionally tothe CPU and primary storage 606 is used typically to transfer data andinstructions in a bi-directional manner. Both of these primary storagedevices may include any suitable non-transitory computer-readable mediasuch as those described above. A mass storage device 608 may also becoupled bi-directionally to CPU 602 and provides additional data storagecapacity and may include any of the non-transitory computer-readablemedia described above. Mass storage device 608 may be used to storeprograms, data and the like and is typically a secondary storage mediumsuch as a hard disk. It will be appreciated that the informationretained within the mass storage device 608, may, in appropriate cases,be incorporated in standard fashion as part of primary storage 606 asvirtual memory. A specific mass storage device such as a CD-ROM 614 mayalso pass data uni-directionally to the CPU.

CPU 602 may also be coupled to an interface 610 that connects to one ormore input/output devices such as such as video monitors, track balls,mice, keyboards, microphones, touch-sensitive displays, transducer cardreaders, magnetic or paper tape readers, tablets, styluses, voice orhandwriting recognizers, or other well-known input devices such as, ofcourse, other computers. Finally, CPU 602 optionally may be coupled toan external device such as a database or a computer ortelecommunications or internet network using an external connection asshown generally at 612, which may be implemented as a hardwired orwireless communications link using suitable conventional technologies.With such a connection, it is contemplated that the CPU might receiveinformation from the network, or might output information to the networkin the course of performing the method steps described in the teachingsof the present invention.

It will be further apparent to those skilled in the art that at least aportion of the novel method steps and/or system components of thepresent invention may be practiced and/or located in location(s)possibly outside the jurisdiction of the United States of America (USA),whereby it will be accordingly readily recognized that at least a subsetof the novel method steps and/or system components in the foregoingembodiments must be practiced within the jurisdiction of the USA for thebenefit of an entity therein or to achieve an object of the presentinvention. Thus, some alternate embodiments of the present invention maybe configured to comprise a smaller subset of the foregoing means forand/or steps described that the applications designer will selectivelydecide, depending upon the practical considerations of the particularimplementation, to carry out and/or locate within the jurisdiction ofthe USA. For example, any of the foregoing described method steps and/orsystem components which may be performed remotely over a network (e.g.,without limitation, a remotely located server) may be performed and/orlocated outside of the jurisdiction of the USA while the remainingmethod steps and/or system components (e.g., without limitation, alocally located client) of the forgoing embodiments are typicallyrequired to be located/performed in the USA for practicalconsiderations. In client-server architectures, a remotely locatedserver typically generates and transmits required information to a USbased client, for use according to the teachings of the presentinvention. Depending upon the needs of the particular application, itwill be readily apparent to those skilled in the art, in light of theteachings of the present invention, which aspects of the presentinvention can or should be located locally and which can or should belocated remotely. Thus, for any claims construction of the followingclaim limitations that are construed under 35 USC §112 (6) it isintended that the corresponding means for and/or steps for carrying outthe claimed function are the ones that are locally implemented withinthe jurisdiction of the USA, while the remaining aspect(s) performed orlocated remotely outside the USA are not intended to be construed under35 USC §112 (6).

It is noted that according to USA law, all claims must be set forth as acoherent, cooperating set of limitations that work in functionalcombination to achieve a useful result as a whole. Accordingly, for anyclaim having functional limitations interpreted under 35 USC §112 (6)where the embodiment in question is implemented as a client-serversystem with a remote server located outside of the USA, each suchrecited function is intended to mean the function of combining, in alogical manner, the information of that claim limitation with at leastone other limitation of the claim. For example, in client-server systemswhere certain information claimed under 35 USC §112 (6) is/(are)dependent on one or more remote servers located outside the USA, it isintended that each such recited function under 35 USC §112 (6) is to beinterpreted as the function of the local system receiving the remotelygenerated information required by a locally implemented claimlimitation, wherein the structures and or steps which enable, and breathlife into the expression of such functions claimed under 35 USC §112 (6)are the corresponding steps and/or means located within the jurisdictionof the USA that receive and deliver that information to the client(e.g., without limitation, client-side processing and transmissionnetworks in the USA). When this application is prosecuted or patentedunder a jurisdiction other than the USA, then “USA” in the foregoingshould be replaced with the pertinent country or countries or legalorganization(s) having enforceable patent infringement jurisdiction overthe present application, and “35 USC §112 (6)” should be replaced withthe closest corresponding statute in the patent laws of such pertinentcountry or countries or legal organization(s).

Having fully described at least one embodiment of the present invention,other equivalent or alternative methods of providing a multiple stage,mutual interest electronic matching system according to the presentinvention will be apparent to those skilled in the art. The inventionhas been described above by way of illustration, and the specificembodiments disclosed are not intended to limit the invention to theparticular forms disclosed. For example, the particular implementationof the system may vary depending upon the particular type of environmentin which it is to be used. The systems described in the foregoing weredirected to dating implementations; however, similar techniques are toprovide matching systems that may be used in various differentenvironments for example, without limitation, general social networking,professional networking, job searching and hiring, recruiting fororganizations such as, but not limited to fraternities, sororities,clubs, sports teams, etc. Non-dating implementations of the presentinvention are contemplated as within the scope of the present invention.The invention is thus to cover all modifications, equivalents, andalternatives falling within the spirit and scope of the followingclaims.

Claim elements and steps herein may have been numbered and/or letteredsolely as an aid in readability and understanding. Any such numberingand lettering in itself is not intended to and should not be taken toindicate the ordering of elements and/or steps in the claims.

1. A system comprising: means for a first member to establish a firstmember profile on a server; means for a second member to establish asecond member profile on said server; means for the first member todisplay said second member profile where said server restricts the firstmember from viewing portions of said second member profile; means forthe second member to display said first member profile where said serverrestricts the second member from viewing portions of said first memberprofile; means for the first member to indicate to said server at leastone level of interest the first member has for the second member, saidlevel of interest being indicated in said second member profile and saidserver restricting the second member from viewing said indication; meansfor the second member to indicate to said server at least one level ofinterest the second member has for the first member, said level ofinterest being indicated in said first member profile and said serverrestricting the first member from viewing said indication; means fornotifying the first member of said at least one level of interest thefirst member has for the second member matching said at least one levelof interest the second member has for the first member and enabling thefirst member to view at least a portion of said portions of said secondmember profile that were restricted; and means for notifying the secondmember of said at least one level of interest the second member has forthe first member matching said at least one level of interest the firstmember has for the second member enabling the second member to view atleast a portion of said portions of said first member profile that wererestricted.
 2. The system as recited in claim 1, in which said firstmember profile includes a profile photo, general information,information about appearance, sexual orientation, private photos andcontact information.
 3. The system as recited in claim 2, in which saidsecond member profile includes a profile photo, general information,information about appearance, sexual orientation, private photos andcontact information.
 4. The system as recited in claim 1, in which saidat least one level of interest being selected from a list of pre-definedstages of a dating decision process, said list of pre-defined stagesbeing presented in an order of progressively higher levels of interest.5. The system as recited in claim 4, in which said means for notifyingthe first member further enables the first member to view said at leastone matching interest level and said list of pre-defined stagesavailable for further selection and matching.
 6. The system as recitedin claim 4, in which said means for notifying the second member furtherenables the second member to view said at least one matching interestlevel and said list of pre-defined stages available for furtherselection and matching.
 7. The system as recited in claim 1, furthercomprising means for the first member and the second member to connectin response to said at least one matching interest level correspondingto a desire to connect.
 8. The system as recited in claim 1, furthercomprising means for enabling the first member and the second member todirectly contact each other in response to said at least one matchinginterest level corresponding to a desire to meet.
 9. The system asrecited in claim 1, further comprising means for billing when the firstmember and the second member reach a determined matching interest level.10. The system as recited in claim 3, in which said portions that wererestricted include private photos and contact information.
 11. A methodcomprising the steps of: a client establishing, on a server, a firstmember profile input by a first member for the first member, said firstmember profile including a profile photo, general information,information about appearance, sexual orientation, private photos andcontact information; said client displaying for the first member asecond member profile established on said server by a second member forthe second member, said second member profile including a profile photo,general information, information about appearance, sexual orientation,private photos and contact information, said server restricting thefirst member from viewing portions of said second member profile; saidclient indicating to said server at least one level of interest thefirst member has for the second member, said level of interest beingindicated in said second member profile and said server restricting thesecond member from viewing said indication, said level of interest beingselected from a list of pre-defined stages of a dating decision process,said client presenting said list of pre-defined stages in an order ofprogressively higher levels of interest; said client receivingnotification from said server to the first member of said at least onelevel of interest the first member has for the second member matching asecond member's at least one selected level of interest for the firstmember and said server sending notification to the second member of saidmatching, said second member's at least one selected level of interestbeing indicated in said first member profile and restricted from beingviewed by the first member; said client receiving with said notificationa link to said second member profile; said client displaying for thefirst member said linked to second member profile with said serverenabling the first member to view at least a portion of said portionsthat were restricted, said at least one matching interest level and saidlist of pre-defined stages available for further selection and matching;said client receiving, from said server, means for the first member toconnect with the second member in response to said at least one matchinginterest level corresponding to a desire to connect; and said clientreceiving, from said server, contact information enabling the firstmember to contact the second member in response to said at least onematching interest level corresponding to a desire to meet where saidserver bills the first member at reaching this matching interest level.12. The method as recited in claim 11, in which said portions that wererestricted include private photos and contact information.
 13. Themethod as recited in claim 11, in which said client comprises a mobilecommunication device.
 14. The method as recited in claim 13, furthercomprising said client displaying for the first member a plurality ofmember profiles for members attending an event at which the first memberis attending.
 15. The method as recited in claim 14, further comprisingsaid client indicating to said server at least one level of interest thefirst member has for one or more of said plurality of members.
 16. Anon-transitory program storage device readable by a machine tangiblyembodying a program of instructions executable by the machine to performa method for a dating decision process, comprising: computer code for aclient to establish, on a server, a first member profile input by afirst member for the first member, said first member profile including aprofile photo, general information, information about appearance, sexualorientation, private photos and contact information; computer code forsaid client to display for the first member a second member profileestablished on said server by a second member for the second member,said second member profile including a profile photo, generalinformation, information about appearance, sexual orientation, privatephotos, contact information and said server restricting the first memberfrom viewing portions of said second member profile; computer code forsaid client to indicate to said server at least one level of interestthe first member has for the second member, said level of interest beingindicated in said second member profile and said server restricting thesecond member from viewing said indication, said level of interest beingselected from a list of pre-defined stages of a dating decision process,said client presenting said list of pre-defined stages in an order ofprogressively higher levels of interest; computer code for said clientto receive notification from said server to the first member of said atleast one level of interest the first member has for the second membermatching a second member's at least one selected level of interest forthe first member and said server sending notification to the secondmember of said matching, said second member's at least one selectedlevel of interest being indicated in said first member profile andrestricted from being viewed by the first member; computer code for saidclient to receive with said notification a link to said second memberprofile; computer code for said client to display for the first membersaid linked to second member profile with said server enabling the firstmember to view at least a portion of said portions that were restricted,said at least one matching interest level and said list of pre-definedstages available for further selection and matching; computer code forsaid client to receive, from said server, means for the first member toconnect with the second member in response to said at least one matchinginterest level corresponding to a desire to connect; and computer codefor said client to receive, from said server, contact informationenabling the first member to contact the second member in response tosaid at least one matching interest level corresponding to a desire tomeet where said server bills the first member at reaching this matchinginterest level.
 17. The non-transitory program storage device readableby a machine tangibly embodying a program of instructions executable bythe machine to perform a method for a dating decision process as recitedin claim 16, in which said portions that were restricted include privatephotos and contact information.
 18. The non-transitory program storagedevice readable by a machine tangibly embodying a program ofinstructions executable by the machine to perform a method for a datingdecision process as recited in claim 16, in which said client comprisesa mobile communication device.
 19. The non-transitory program storagedevice readable by a machine tangibly embodying a program ofinstructions executable by the machine to perform a method for a datingdecision process as recited in claim 18, further comprising computercode for said client to display for the first member a plurality ofmember profiles for members attending an event at which the first memberis attending.
 20. The non-transitory program storage device readable bya machine tangibly embodying a program of instructions executable by themachine to perform a method for a dating decision process as recited inclaim 19, further comprising computer code for said client to indicateto said server at least one level of interest the first member has forone or more of said plurality of members.